I am an ugly girl and this is making me so unhappy. Other girls do not want to be my friends and boys are just not interested. Please help. – Ezmerelda from Birmingham (England)
thevillageman he say…
Your heart is very sad because you not thinking of problem in correct way. I explain….Everybody know that buffalo have 2 ends but each end it look different to the other. How the buffalo appear depend if you looking from front or back side. It is the same buffalo but look different from this way or from that way.
After many year experiens it clear to me that ugly girls must be very happy and beeutiful girls not happy in the life. When girl is ugly she have plenty time to help on farm and this make father, mother and all family delight.
Yes, she have only few friends but she know for true they are real friend because they not make friendship for face only. Also if after long time some boy from village finally visit with family to talk with your father and explain interest in marriage (kissing only after wedding) it show he have real love for you because he ignore the ugly face. This mean that marriage and all friendships very successful. Your babies will be very happy as they also will have good life like you because they ugly too.
Now I will show you the problems for the beeutiful girl with nothing in the head.
She have many friends but all have secret hate for her (of course they not show this in the face at all) and many boys are interested but not for marriage, making future baby and then good happy life on farm until get old.
They only want kissing (but they pretend marriage is important) and then tell boys in other village that this girl very easy and making bad name for her so she cannot find correct husband. And the worst problem with this type of girl is she is always scared when looking at big mirror in hay shed and worry worry worry. No use because the beeuty slowly it changes when she grow up to be old lady and then we see that she now look the same as that ugly girl she insult long time before.
You have write on problem page that you are ugly and not happy in your heart.
The truth ezmereld is that you are beeutiful butterfly inside simple and plain cukoon. But of course blind peoples they cannot see this.